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The grass isn't always greener in the big city
Why do a small town's best and brightest young people relocate to big cities?
The common assumption is that they leave to seek better opportunities or more excitement.
Bill Kauffman has a different theory -- our teachers, civic leaders, parents and American culture try to convince rural young people that to be an achiever, you have to go elsewhere. There's little thought to the notion that you can achieve right where you're rooted.
Kauffman discusses this idea in a book review for the Wall Street Journal:
The sharpest insight in "Hollowing Out the Middle" is that "small towns play an unwitting role in their own decline" by inculcating, in school and too often at home, the belief that fulfilling one's promise means leaving for the city lights or the manicured suburbs. The purpose of education today, as Kentucky poet-farmer Wendell Berry argues, is to train young people to leave home. And so, the authors note, "the investment the community has made in them becomes a boon for someplace else."
Batavia is full of bright, young people who have decided to stay, or who have come back. I've met them. Batavia's future would be even brighter if we could convince more of them to stay and help build new businesses and invest in the community that nurtured them.
- Howard Owens
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You state this as if it's something organic, as if you have no choice but to have or believe that attitude.
How do you know it isn't your teachers and society that taught you to believe that's what was best for you? Maybe that wasn't what was best for you? How do you know for sure?
And it was organic for me. I was homesick, but I learned to deal with it. I learned how to get lost and ask for directions, how to find new things, how to interact with people I wasn't comfortable with, etc. If I had the opportunity to call my dad every time I got lost, would I have developed into the same person who functions the same way? Probably not.
Moving away and coming back home also increases the diversity of small towns, both culturally and intellectually, which small towns need. If educated individuals did not "move back" there would be fewer businesses and other opportunities available in those small towns.
There are few possibilities of going to college while staying in small towns. Upstate New York is lucky, you can live almost anywhere and be near a college within 30 minutes, in the mid-west things are very different.
Don't get me wrong, I do think we, as a society put too much emphasis on big cities on the opportunities there. But, in reality, going to college increases so many opportunities, moving away is sometimes the only option.
But that's not really the point here -- it's not about diversity of interests -- its about a culture and a school system that TEACHES the FALSE notion that the ONLY way to find happiness is to move away.
But I would still say: If you don't like the opportunities here, make them. The best opportunities in life are the ones you make for yourself. And you can make them just about anywhere, including where you're rooted.
I highly doubt colleges are telling kids to move away from their families, that paranoia comes from the high priests of localism. The economics of a college education make finding a good paying job mandatory at this point. Maybe once we have socialized medicine Obama will focus on out of control education costs as well. Then maybe, kids will be able to stay home and make it where they are "rooted".
I agree with Dave, not everyone is in the position to start a business in order to stay in this area.
When I came back to Batavia, I knew that there would be no job available for someone who's most recent experience was in the realm of the dot.com industry. I left there as a project manager/online moderator.
I had many interviews and all ended wth the fact that I was "over qualified" and that I would be "bored" with whatever jobs were open here (translation, we're afraid that you will leave shortly after you are hired for greener pastures).
My good fortune was that my former employer, in California, hired me as a remote employee. Not everyone has that opportunity.
Yes, I could have opened my own shop and worked as a consultant in the field of project management/quality assurance but I didn't feel that there was a niche for this in Batavia and surrounding towns.
The belief that everyone, regardless of skill sets, can make an opportunity here in Batavia is a warm and fuzzy thought but not rooted in reality.
And localism is synonymous with The Batavian. It's what we do. I doubt that will ever change. I'm on the same side of the line I've always been on. Nothing's changed.
Then we are told we have to bail them out and should feel bad when their CEO’s have to back some of the money they have stolen.
As for thebatavian being about Localism, nothing is perfect. :-)
If we're ever going to turn this country around, we need to turn away from bigness -- big government and big conglomerates -- and we'll need our best and brightest in our local communities helping to make them better instead of feeding the maw of bigness.
Don't blame the banks for offering loans to these adults..if they aren't smart enough to handle thier finances then they aren't smart enought to attend a college..
Whats the answer Charlie free college,,,who will pay..
I don't feel that my professors are overpaid either.
But that's not really the point here -- it's not about diversity of interests -- its about a culture and a school system that TEACHES the FALSE notion that the ONLY way to find happiness is to move away.
But I would still say: If you don't like the opportunities here, make them. The best opportunities in life are the ones you make for yourself. And you can make them just about anywhere, including where you're rooted.
With regard to opportunities...I certainly can't disagree with the notion of creating opportunities for oneself. I think that Batavia and Genesee county are a shining example of hard working, smart and creative people who are not afraid to take on challenges and take risks to build and serve the community. Just look at the great upgrades and businesses that have come to Batavia's Main Street in recent years. Empty store fronts have been replaced by deli's, coffee shops, restaurants and fashionable stores. Between the opportunities for business, the fact that a main thoroughfare runs through the county, and the highly professional police, fire and EMS, I like to think of Batavia as the "big little city." But the problem is that Batavia, and other towns like it, have all of the great food, entertainment and services that anyone could need to live happily and comfortably...But they lack one critical component...they are void of too many of those specified jobs that would motivate a young, recent college graduate to stay. I will conclude by saying that I see Batavia as being in a very strong position to reverse the trend of young people leaving, as more young people choose the growing and successful community college that is right in town, and the community and leaders continue to work to develop and scout out opportunities.
So i guess the way you see it is any one that rich should pay for health care and college for those that don't have has much...
The people that milk us dry every day is goverenment ..they are the only ones adding jobs and getting raise's.
You say Education is a matter of national security.If that is the case and inner city school graduation rates are at 50% we are in melt down mode..Must be the government isn't doing its job again..It is there job to educate..And it is free to go to school K-12..How do you figure these kids will do in college..They won't because the school system let them down..
What do we have left to lose? How are the poor bankers and bean counters going to survive then?
The problem isn't taxes, it's our debt.
My BA is in "Politics", I thought I wanted to be a lawyer, but found out I didn't want to do that after all. I could own a Porche with my OWN loans. While I am not set for "a job" I COULD do almost anything. I can read, write, communicate and critically think about things. I was accepted into every Master's program I applied to. If more people sent themselves to school or parents set up proper savings accounts, fewer people would need private loans. The amount of people who actually need private loans is not nearly as large as the media plays it out to be. The government subsidizes loans, which are much safer and lower-interest, but most people don't know or aren't interested because they don't educate themselves about it.
I do not have a universal credit card (I do for individual stores, simply because using coupons they send is cheaper, especially since I pay them off the first bill I receive). Students DON'T NEED credit cards, work study jobs and part time jobs can fund the daily needs of students as long as they know how to save and budget. Raising kids and teaching them they can have whatever they want whenever they want it is not teaching them how to be fiscally responsible. This is not the banks' fault.
There are many careers where people do not have the choice to live in a small town like Batavia, but many people do have that choice. However, for most of us we cannot "create" opportunities in our work fields. I cannot establish a university or college, or create an office where I can work at GCC.
As for students of different nations attending our schools, higher education is one of our strongest exports in this country. And the programs that are applied for by these students are not of interest to many domestic students. Want more American engineers? Convince more people that a 5-year degree and continuous education is worth getting in that specific field. They then need to be paid enough to pay for that degree as well as regular living expenses.
If I end up leaving Batavia (NYS in general), it'll be because of the laws, taxes, and the people. I'm right with Chelsea when she said something along the lines of "stupid rules in the city".
Telling people they can create opportunity here when they have skill sets that requires larger companies is a fantasy. Creating a company is not a skill set a lot of us have.
I don't think the "loan" is it either. It's where the kid thinks he make the best go of it. There are lots of kids paying off college loans living around here.
And there are kids with no loans, who just think they can get better pay in a larger area like Buffalo.
Young people (say 18-25 or so) also just might find Batavia a bit dull compared to Bufflao.
This might come as a shock, but people have been moving from rural to larger urban areas for a long time.
What's wrong about suggesting that people can consider a wider array of choices than what is shoved down their throats by media and educators?
I understand your point, Howard, but can you give some examples? It is all well and good to say that those entering the work force should consider a wider array of choices in order to stay in this area, but what are examples of those choices?
Mark has a point, too. Not every profession requires a college degree. BOCES provides the opportunity to learn a trade that can be put to use immediately after graduation. Each of those skills can be honed either on the job or, in come cases, may be the stepping stone for a person to decide to further education in a related field. (for example, a LPN might decide to go to college in order to get their RN).
Do you feel that you were indoctrinated, by a school system, to leave California and come to New York? By your own idealogy, you should have stayed in your hometown and promoted localism. (as an aside, I'm glad you didn't.)
There are many factors that enter into an individual choice.
A young person choses to enter the military. He/She may make that choice based on opportunities they discover elsewhere.
Personal relationships also enter into this. A mutual decision as to where to job hunt and set up housekeeping has little to do with indoctrination from a school system.
It would be difficult, indeed, to tell a person that they should look at the wide array of choices, here in Genesee County, when offered to relocate in order to advance their career and earning power. Without giving concrete examples of this 'wide array of choices', the words ring hollow.
And I've told this story before -- I think I've always been a localist of sorts, but it wasn't until after arriving in New York that it started to develop into a kind of political philosophy, something that I saw as an idea with wider consequences and a wider need. And I've thought about the very question that you ask, about staying in California. My circumstances weren't, as I see it, as advantageous as many people here. I was something very unusual in California -- second generation Californian, but only on my mother's side. Here, I meet people all the time who are fourth and fifth generation Batavians. And the small town everybody knows everybody is something special you don't find in California. As I've written before, the closest thing I had to a home town in California was El Cajon, but I didn't move there until I was 14 years old. I can't say there was ever any encouragement to leave, but then I was already in the big city (a hell of a lot bigger than Buffalo or Rochester). But I wanted to leave, which is one reason I am not too sympathetic to to the notion that "young people find Batavia is boring." I thought San Diego was boring when I was young. Any place is boring if you think it is. You make your own attitudes. And maybe that is something you can't teach, but I think there is cultural pressure to "get out of that hick town" (whatever small town it is), and I think it would be good to actively try to counter act that.
I mean look at how we, as a culture, refer to small towns: hick towns, Podunk, back waters/woods ... even rural is a dirty word to some people, and people from small towns: clod hoppers, yokels, hicks, rednecks. Small towns and their virtues are not much admired in the wider American culture, and never have been. To be from a small town, in American culture, is to be dumb, uncouth and backwards. Of course, we know that's not true, but urbanites think only they are cool and hip.
Not everyone is in a position to finance or start a new business. As much as it would be nice to have an entire city populated by business owners, it just isn't going to happen.
I like living in a rural community. We are blessed to be close to big cities where one can visit and take advantage of what is offered there. I don't consider those who chose to stay here 'hicks' nor do I consider them backward.
We need a vision for this area that attracts businesses. Our location, midway between the two big cities could be the ideal location for corporations. That vision has never been fulfilled. When we can attract those type of businesses that require the skill sets our people have then we will provide our young people with the incentive to stay.
You are coming at this from a perspective that is judgmental for people who are not living your dream and don’t care too. Some of us want to live in a small town and raise our families there and still would like to earn a good living. You can do both, it’s just going to cost you a good chunk of time behind the wheel of a car. I don’t think what you’re saying controversial either; this is just a discussion of differing viewpoints.
If somebody goes to a 4 year college, it will be out of town and out of Genesee County. If they go to say, RIT or UB, they will tend to look around there for a job when they graduate. Remember, they have lived there more in the past 4 years than here. Many, if not most, of their friends are now there, not here.
Job fairs at those colleges will not often have companies from Genesee County.
Another loss of young people is the military. Except for Fort Drum, most military posts are out of NY. Many are in warm weather areas with better economies and lower taxes. Texas and Florida are examples. They may come back later in life, but it was estimated that 9 out of 10 never come back.
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Bea, it doesn't take much to start a business, if you really want to start a business. And my statement about wide array of choices was exactly about including a start-up among your options. Don't just think that you have to move away to have a career (yes, as I said, in some fields, that's the only choice). That's narrow thinking. Expand your options by thinking differently. Why is that such a controversial idea?
Howard,
I have no problem with the option of starting a business, if one has the product or service that is needed - and if one can generate a market to make it successful.
But, that is just one choice. You stated there is a " wide array of choices", in Genesee County, that should keep people with marketable skills here. You are blaming the school system for indoctrinating students to move away and not look at that 'wide array of choices'.
I asked for examples (other than starting a business) of that wide array of choices that will provide a living wage here in Genesee Co.
Dave, again, we're not talking about what's taught in colleges.
That means, they can consider staying or going, starting a business, or picking a career that fits in what's available here, or look for a telecommuting job ... there is more than just the one choice of moving away.
I think starting your own business is an option only if that is your skill set, you like what you are about to do and have the financial wherewithal to do it. It’s a life choice and not any more or less good than any other career choice.
As for why kids leave the area for work. There are many reasons as we have seen here. All of them are viable. The only one that isn’t in my book is this idea that teachers tell kids they should live somewhere else. That’s just silly.
Having a teenage boy who is about to go to college and just might have to leave the area for work, hits a nerve with me. You also hit another nerve, driving takes up a good part of my week because, there really isn’t an option for me other than changing what I do or downgrading my lifestyle.
You have to understand it’s a choice to create your own business, not an “option” for many, many people.
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I also disagree with the findings. In order for me to understand where I belong and where my "home" is, I needed to move away. I needed to live in and travel around Europe. I needed to go to school away from my parents, to live in a city, to learn about myself and my real beliefs. I came home, I still live with my parents a few days a week. Peter and I have a home in Batavia, and for the most part, are happy in Batavia.
However, given a chance I would move. It's cold, the roads aren't taken care of between Rochester and Batavia well enough, the city has stupid rules I hate and will refuse to follow. With my BA and future MA, I will be able to live just about any where. This state, and city, needs to prove that there is a reason to stay, other than my family. I can find a small town, working at a college, and raise a family anywhere in the US, so, why should I stay in NYS?